posted 30th July 2025
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the hardest things we ever have to do. For many families, the decision to proceed with euthanasia is made with a heavy heart but deep love — prioritising the comfort and dignity of a pet whose quality of life has sadly declined.
One of the most personal choices you’ll face at this time is whether to stay with your pet during their final moments. While everyone copes with loss differently, being present during the euthanasia process can offer peace — both for you and for your pet.
Comfort in Familiarity
Our pets see us as their safe place. Your voice, your scent, your touch — these are the things that bring them comfort, especially when they’re feeling vulnerable. Being with your pet as they pass helps them feel secure and loved, right until the very end.
At Rainbow Bridge Pet Funerals, we often hear from families who took comfort in knowing their pet wasn’t alone. The calming presence of a familiar hand or gentle reassurance can help reduce anxiety for your pet and create a peaceful, loving atmosphere.
A Final Act of Love
Choosing to stay with your pet is, for many, a final act of kindness. It’s a moment to express your love, say thank you, and be there as they gently slip away. There is something deeply meaningful about offering that last bit of support — and ensuring their final experience is filled with warmth and care.
Supporting the Grieving Process
Grief is an intensely personal journey, but being present for the goodbye can often help with acceptance. Witnessing a peaceful and dignified passing, rather than imagining what it might have been like, may bring a sense of closure and reduce feelings of guilt or regret later on.
It may also allow you the space to begin your grieving process with a sense of certainty — knowing you did everything you could and were by your pet’s side when they needed you most.
Every Choice Is Valid
It’s important to note that some people feel unable to stay — and that’s okay too. If you feel you might be too overwhelmed, or worry your emotions may upset your pet, it's perfectly reasonable to step away and ask someone else to be there in your place. What matters most is that your pet is treated with kindness, dignity and care.
At Rainbow Bridge Pet Funerals, we work gently and compassionately to support both you and your pet through this incredibly difficult time — whether you choose to be present or not.
You're Not Alone
We know how deeply pets are loved, and how hard it is to say goodbye. That’s why we offer both in-person and telephone quality of life assessments with our trusted RCVS veterinary team, to help guide you through the decision.
If you’re unsure about the process or want to discuss what’s right for your pet and your family, we’re here to help — with empathy, understanding, and no judgement.
Because when that time comes, your pet deserves nothing less than peace, dignity and love. And so do you.
We're here to help - whenever you need us!
