posted 9th July 2025
The death of a beloved pet can be just as heartbreaking as losing a family member. Pets are companions, confidants, and a constant source of unconditional love, so when they pass away, the grief can feel overwhelming. If someone close to you is going through this difficult time, it’s natural to want to help—but many people aren’t sure what to say or do.
Here are some thoughtful and compassionate ways to support someone who’s lost a pet:
1. Acknowledge Their Grief
One of the most important things you can do is simply recognise their loss. Don’t downplay it or compare it to other types of grief. Saying things like “At least it was just a dog” or “You can always get another one” can be unintentionally hurtful. Instead, try saying something like “I’m so sorry—you gave them such a lovely life” or “I know how much they meant to you.”
2. Be There to Listen
Sometimes, the best support you can offer is a listening ear. Let them talk about their pet, share memories, and express their emotions without judgement or interruption. Grieving pet owners often need to talk about their companion as a way of processing the loss.
3. Send a Thoughtful Gesture
A small act of kindness can mean a great deal. Consider sending a condolence card, flowers, or even a personalised keepsake such as a photo frame or paw print ornament. If you’re close, you might also offer to help with practical things—such as notifying the vet or collecting ashes—if they’re struggling to manage.
4. Give Them Space (If They Need It)
Everyone grieves differently. Some people may want to talk, while others need time alone. Let your friend or family member know you're there for them but don’t take it personally if they need a bit of space.
5. Remember Their Pet
As time passes, continue to acknowledge the loss. You could send a message on their pet’s birthday or the anniversary of their passing. Sharing a memory, a photo, or simply letting them know you’re thinking of them can bring great comfort.
6. Encourage Healthy Grieving
Let them know it’s okay to grieve and take their time. If they seem overwhelmed, gently encourage them to seek extra support—whether that’s from a grief counsellor, a pet loss support group, or even just talking more openly with loved ones.
At Rainbow Bridge Pet Funerals, we understand how deep the bond between pets and their people can be. Supporting someone through that kind of loss takes patience, empathy, and genuine care.
If you or someone you know is struggling, we’re always here to offer compassionate guidance and services that honour the life and memory of much-loved pets.
