posted 4th June 2025
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy, and during such an emotional time, it can feel overwhelming to make decisions — especially when they come with paperwork and quick timelines.
One question we’re often asked is: “Do I have to use the cremation service offered by my vets?” The short and simple answer is: no, you don’t.
You Have a Choice
Many veterinary practices own or partner with pet crematoriums and will offer their cremation services as part of the end-of-life care they provide. While this may be convenient, you are under no obligation to use this service. You have every right to explore other options, ask questions, and decide what feels right for you and your pet.
Take Your Time
We understand that sometimes these decisions must be made quickly, but wherever possible, give yourself permission to pause. It’s perfectly okay not to be sure what you want to do right away.
Your vet may present cremation paperwork soon after your pet passes or even beforehand. If that happens, it’s entirely within your rights to say, “I need a little time to think” or “I’d like to explore other options.”
Read Before You Sign
If you're presented with any forms or paperwork, take a moment to read them carefully. You may be asked to sign something that authorises a communal cremation — where ashes are not returned — or to choose a private cremation without fully understanding what that includes.
Don’t feel pressured. If something doesn’t sit right or you have questions, ask. You can also request to delay the cremation arrangements until you've had a chance to consider other providers — including independent services like Rainbow Bridge Pet Funerals, where we offer a more personal and bespoke approach.
Independent Pet Funeral Services
Choosing an independent pet funeral service means you have more say over how your pet is handled, how their ashes are returned (if you wish to have them back), and how much time you need to make arrangements. We’re here to support you at your pace, in your way — with dignity, compassion, and care.
In Summary
- You are not required to use the cremation service offered by your vet.
- Take time to consider what you want — you don’t have to rush.
- Always read any paperwork before signing and don’t hesitate to ask questions.
- You can choose an independent provider like Rainbow Bridge Pet Funerals for a more personal service.
We know how hard this time can be. If you’re uncertain or just need someone to talk to, please know we’re here to help — no pressure, no obligations, just understanding support when you need it most.
