Losing a beloved pet is one of the most heart-aching experiences we can go through. Whether they were with you for months or many years, the bond you shared didn’t come with conditions or timelines — so neither should your grief. Pet loss grief can feel overwhelming, and it’s completely normal to seek comfort, guidance, and understanding as you move through it.

There’s a quote we often share with families: “Grief is simply love with nowhere to go.”

Those words resonate deeply because they capture something so true: the reason saying goodbye hurts so much is because your love was real, loyal, and unconditional. And that love doesn’t disappear just because your pet is no longer physically beside you.

If you are considering your options for saying goodbye, our pet cremation services are carried out with dignity and compassion, giving you peace of mind during this difficult time.

There Is No “Right” Timeline for Healing
Many people worry about how long it should take to heal after pet bereavement, or whether they’re “doing it right.” The truth is simple — there is no schedule.

Some days you may feel a sense of peace as you remember the moments that made your pet special. Other days, even weeks or months later, you might find yourself overwhelmed by sadness at the smallest reminder. This is a natural part of grieving the loss of a pet, and both experiences are completely valid.

Grief isn’t a straight line. It changes over time, and each person’s journey is unique. What matters most is giving yourself permission to feel whatever comes, without judgement.

For support during this time, our pet loss support page offers guidance and comfort to help you navigate each stage of grief.

Missing Them Is Normal
We see every day just how deeply pets are loved — and how deeply they are missed.

Families often tell us they still speak to their pets, expect to hear their paws, or find comfort in their favourite spots around the home. These moments can be painful, but they are also gentle reminders of the bond you shared.

Missing them deeply is normal. It means they mattered. It means you loved them. And that your heart is trying to make sense of a world without their physical presence.

Be Kind to Yourself
Pet bereavement affects everyone differently. It can impact your emotions, energy, sleep and daily routine. The waves of grief may come long after you thought you were coping better.

If you’re grieving:

• Be patient with yourself.
• Allow yourself moments of quiet when you need them.
• Talk about your pet if it brings comfort.
• Seek support — you don’t have to navigate pet loss alone.

Healing after pet bereavement doesn’t mean forgetting. It means learning how to live with a love that has changed shape. If you would like to plan a gentle, private farewell for your pet, our Rainbow Room and home euthanasia services provide a calm and compassionate environment for you and your family.

Your Heart Is Learning a New Shape
The love you shared with your pet doesn’t disappear; it simply becomes something new. For some, it becomes memories, photos, or keepsakes. For others, it becomes a lasting sense of gratitude for the time you had together.

Wherever you are in your journey, please remember this:

• You don’t need to be “over it.” - You’re learning how to live with a love that no longer has a heartbeat but still fills your life in countless ways.
• Be gentle with yourself today - You are doing better than you think.

For families looking to remember and celebrate their pet, our keepsakes and memorial options offer meaningful ways to treasure their life and the memories you shared.

Michelle & James